I remember I was told to behave certainly,
I cannot forget what society tells me,
'cause I carry them in my head,
...all painted!
I can never forget how vague the concepts have been,
...and how vaguely have they been accepted!
Why is it that we women allow society to objectify us?
Why does society always portray a woman as an object of beauty, pleasure, and HOPE?
It is we who allow them, and we who support them! Because...(keep a hand on your heart and tell me)...do we not love attention? Do we not love it when we are taken more care of by somebody? Do we not fall for people easily and give in to their hopes and do we not try, then, to fulfill what they want from us?
We do! Because we always accept that we are just delicate and we accept that we are meant to be sensitive.
But tell me seriously...if we are delicate then who is strong? If we bear the burden of emotions of the entire surroundings, then is it anybody else who is strong? If we bear the most dreadful pain of the world by giving this world a human being in the form of a beautiful baby, then why don't we consider ourselves strong?
Today, I'll tell you the loophole here!
Although many women today have started realizing their powers, there are still some who do not, and those who do not are of two types, one who wants to sit back and eat somebody else's money and be dependent and don't wish to get out of their comfort zone, and, second who have never seen what's happening in the world as they have never stepped out of their orthodox environment due to various constraints the people around them have put up for them!
The first ones bring defame and portray feminism in a wrong way, while the second ones don't even know what feminine power is!
But...what's common among these two is, that both never try to upgrade themselves, and also, they don't want another woman out there to behave differently from them, because both of these feel that only they are right!
And I tell you, if you see from another perspective, I feel they are not wrong anywhere because we haven't tried to teach behavioral change to the society, w.r.t. women!
So, what kind of behavioral change sessions do women need?
First, for the really strong women, we need to tell them to never get affected by the above two caged categories!
Secondly, separate sessions are needed for those women who need to be taught self-realization, and must be shown what's happening in the world and what this world really is...and that women are also, like men, human beings and not mere objects of beauty, pleasure, and HOPE!
I wish we help each other with this behavioral change and I wish we keep rising higher!
Regards,
~Ananya Anurag Anand
(#missionevolvin)
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